y'all, being a mom is hard. it's often disgusting, exhausting, frustrating, & usually very unglamorous.
i mean, just think of all the thoughts that go through your head daily:
*ugh, do i seriously have to wipe your nose again???
*why are there fingerprints everywhere?? I just dusted!
*please don't hit mommy.
*why did you wait until AFTER i changed your wet diaper to go poop? diapers ain't free!
*please don't scream & throw a in the restaurant.
*food is expensive! please don't throw it on the floor. or feed it to the dog. or flush it down the toilet. please just eat it.
*don't hit mommy!
*come here, let me wipe your nose. AGAIN.
*how are you dirty? you just took a bath.
*my back really hurts from lugging you around. please just hold my hand and walk.
*please! no more yo gabba gabba. or mickey. or wo wo wubbzy. just 5 minutes of silence. please!
*DON'T HIT MOMMY!
*please take your nap.
*hartmann, the potty is not a toy.
*just because it's green doesn't mean it's gross. please just eat it.
*why do you only want me to play with you when the phone rings?
*hartmann, put the kitty down. hartmann, put him down! hartmann....oh never mind, you'll get scratched then maybe you'll learn.
*if one more action figure pokes me in the butt when i'm trying to bathe, i swear........
*bedtime is NOT the enemy. your toys will still be here in the morning, waiting for you.
really, i could go on. and on. and on.
my point? there are lots of complaints/headaches/etc. that go along with being a momma.
but? if you have these thoughts it means
you ARE a momma. you GET to be one.
mother's day makes me think of all the woman who aren't mommies.
maybe they are trying & it just hasn't happened yet.
maybe they've had a babe inside, but lost it.
maybe they birthed a child, then had to bury it.
maybe they are stuck somewhere in the lengthy process of adoption.
maybe they've been told just simply
can't.
how difficult it must be for them everyday. but especially mother's day. i know that longing, that ache, to be a mom. that emptiness that can only be filled by one thing. the uncertainty of wondering & waiting for something that is not guaranteed, just because you have all the right parts.
a day that is so wonderful & happy for a lot of us can be a sad, painful reminder to others.
this mother's day, i pray i will always remember that all those day-to-day complaints exist because
I AM A MOM.
something that should never, ever by taken for granted.